{"id":268,"date":"2017-07-27T15:50:25","date_gmt":"2017-07-27T15:50:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vannghetudo.org\/?p=268"},"modified":"2019-03-18T08:27:05","modified_gmt":"2019-03-18T12:27:05","slug":"cho-nen-ep-buoc-con-phai-theo-y-minh-chau-ha","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vannghetudo.org\/index.php\/2017\/07\/27\/cho-nen-ep-buoc-con-phai-theo-y-minh-chau-ha\/","title":{"rendered":"Ch\u1edb N\u00ean \u00c9p Bu\u1ed9c Con Ph\u1ea3i Theo \u00dd M\u00ecnh – Ch\u00e2u H\u00e0"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ch\u1edb N\u00ean \u00c9p Bu\u1ed9c Con Ph\u1ea3i Theo \u00dd M\u00ecnh<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u00e2u H\u00e0<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u em b\u00e9 m\u1edbi s\u00e1u, b\u1ea9y tu\u1ed5i m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0110\u01af\u1ee2C ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 B\u1eca cha m\u1eb9 cho \u0111i h\u1ecdc k\u00e8m th\u00eam h\u1ebft to\u00e1n, v\u0103n t\u1edbi \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u1ea3 v\u00f5 thu\u1eadt hay b\u01a1i l\u1ed9i n\u1eefa.<\/span>

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a k\u1ec3 t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 em thu\u1ed9c lo\u1ea1i “th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed3ng” – V\u00ec s\u1edbm t\u1ecf ra c\u00f3 “n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu” \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t , tr\u1ed5i v\u01b0\u1ee3t h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 n\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00fd th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 huynh “ch\u0103m s\u00f3c \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t”, chi\u1ebfu c\u1ed1 t\u1eadn t\u00ecnh…n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh qu\u00e1 s\u1ee9c c\u1ef1c nh\u1ecdc.<\/span>

Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cho th\u1ea5y ngo\u00e0i m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c em th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng , tri\u1ec3n v\u1ecdng l\u1edbn lao ; th\u00ec c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean nhi \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn x\u00f4 \u0111\u1ea9y v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng “t\u1ea5t b\u1eadt”, “quay cu\u1ed3ng” c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y , n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y khi c\u00e1c em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u .<\/span>

Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n b\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u? C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec qu\u00e1 lo l\u1eafng cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai n\u00ean mu\u1ed1n b\u1eaft con em m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh th\u1eadt nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian cho vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh. \u0110\u00f4i khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng \u0103n vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m , t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng mu\u1ed1n cho tr\u1ebb th\u01a1 kh\u1ecfi b\u1ecb l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o c\u00e1c tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i th\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 cho ch\u00fang \u0111i h\u1ecdc th\u00eam v\u00e0 sinh ho\u1ea1t ngo\u1ea1i kh\u00f3a su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y .<\/span>

Nguy\u00ean do n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, mi\u1ec5n l\u00e0 c\u00e1c sinh ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c sao cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea1ng, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch th\u1eadt s\u1ef1, ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i c\u00e1c em.<\/span>

\u0110\u1ed0I V\u1edaI NHI \u0110\u1ed2NG CH\u01afA \u0110\u1ebeN TU\u1ed4I \u0110I H\u1eccC :<\/span>

H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 cho c\u00e1c em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. C\u00e1c em ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u ph\u1ea3i “h\u1ecdc th\u00eam” hay “h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1edbc” khi \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng. V\u1edbi l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y (3- 5 tu\u1ed5i) th\u1eadt ra m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, m\u1ed7i gi\u1edd….c\u00e1c em \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 vui ch\u01a1i, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u1edbi c\u00e1c anh ch\u1ecb, b\u00e8 b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng trang l\u1ee9a trong c\u00e1c m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng sinh ho\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh hay n\u01a1i gi\u1eef tr\u1ebb.<\/span>

\u0110\u1ed0I V\u1edaI H\u1eccC SINH C\u1ea4P TI\u1ec2U H\u1eccC :<\/span>

C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean theo s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng em m\u00e0 cho tham gia nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 3 trong c\u00e1c d\u1ea1ng sinh ho\u1ea1t ngo\u1ea1i kh\u00f3a (1 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, 1 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 thao, 1 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch v\u0103n ngh\u1ec7)<\/span>

\u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd th\u00f4i th\u00fac c\u00e1c em ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, tranh \u0111ua qu\u00e1 s\u1ee9c.<\/span>

\u0110\u1ed0I V\u1edaI THI\u1ebeU NI\u00caN H\u1eccC SINH C\u1ea4P PH\u1ed4 TH\u00d4NG :<\/span>

\u1ede l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c em c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a t\u00f9y theo \u00fd th\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0: Tham gia c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9i th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c th\u1ec3 thao, c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9i tr\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n v\u0103n ngh\u1ec7 hay sinh ho\u1ea1t c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, tham gia c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 khoa h\u1ecdc, to\u00e1n h\u1ecdc, \u0111i\u1ec7n to\u00e1n…v.v<\/span>

\u0110\u1ed0I V\u1edaI SINH VI\u00caN C\u1ea4P \u0110\u1ea0I H\u1eccC:<\/span>

C\u00e1c em \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t, qu\u00fd v\u1ecb ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean can thi\u1ec7p qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm. Tuy nhi\u00ean, qu\u00fd v\u1ecb ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bu\u00f4ng th\u1ea3 hay chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nguy c\u01a1 con em b\u1ecb l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o c\u00e1c tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i hay nh\u1eefng th\u00fa vui tai h\u1ea1i.<\/span>

V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft thu x\u1ebfp cho c\u00e1c em c\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1eddi gian h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp , sinh ho\u1ea1t v\u00e0 ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i (nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0103n v\u00e0 ng\u1ee7).<\/span>

Ch\u00ednh th\u1eddi gian ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i h\u1ee3p l\u00fd s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 t\u00e0i tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c em.<\/span>

Khi d\u1ea1y con v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch qu\u00e1 cao xa nh\u01b0:<\/span>

* Tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00edch cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/span>

* C\u00f3 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng.<\/span>

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em l\u00e0 l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i hay \u0103n hay ch\u01a1i th\u00ec ch\u00fang r\u1ea5t mau qu\u00ean c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch tr\u1eebu t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 xa v\u1eddi n\u00e0y. V\u00ec v\u1eady , ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh cho con nh\u1eefng m\u1ee9c g\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 : N\u0103m nay con h\u1ecdc l\u1edbp ba , con h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1 v\u00e0 gi\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1ecfi \u1edf l\u1ea1i l\u1edbp l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i .<\/span>

N\u1ebfu qu\u00fd v\u1ecb ph\u1ee5 huynh bi\u1ebft khen th\u01b0\u1edfng con em m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i hay m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111i ch\u01a1i cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n th\u00ec qu\u00e1 t\u1ed1t.<\/span>

Nh\u1edb ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a , khi c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 con….kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111au kh\u1ed5 cho b\u1eb1ng \u0111ang vui ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng x\u00f3m , b\u1ecb b\u1ed1 g\u1ecdi v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e9t v\u00e0o m\u00f4ng r\u1ed3i b\u1eaft ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0o b\u00e0n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch to\u00e1n hay t\u1eadp l\u00e0m v\u0103n. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 , v\u1edbi hai h\u00e0ng n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft r\u01a1i l\u00e3 ch\u00e3 , t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng gh\u00ea s\u1ee3 !<\/span>

C\u00f2n g\u1ea7n nh\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o r\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc , th\u1eb1ng cu L\u1edbn t\u1ed1i n\u00e0o c\u0169ng b\u1ecb \u00f4ng d\u00f9ng roi m\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00f9a v\u00e0o b\u00e0n h\u1ecdc. H\u1ecdc th\u00ec h\u1ecdc v\u1eady nh\u01b0ng cu L\u1edbn ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 g\u00ec ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 , \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac ch\u1ecbu h\u1ebft n\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng tr\u1eadn \u0111\u00f2n roi c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 , cu L\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf nh\u00e0 \u0111i hoang !<\/span>

S\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m , kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean g\u00f2 \u00e9p con theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh . V\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 c\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft m\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0o b\u00e0n h\u1ecdc. Mu\u1ed1n th\u1ebf , ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea7n d\u1ea1y cho con hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc , ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thi \u0111ua v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u00edch th\u00fa say m\u00ea h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. Ch\u00fang s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t sung s\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o khi gi\u1ea3i ra m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i to\u00e1n kh\u00f3 , hay t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd hay cho m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i lu\u1eadn v\u0103n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3.<\/span>

Khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 th\u00edch ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0o b\u00e0n h\u1ecdc r\u1ed3i th\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp ra th\u1eddi kh\u00f3a bi\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc \u1edf nh\u00e0. Qua \u0111\u00f3 , b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a con qua th\u1eddi kh\u00f3a bi\u1ec3u. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u00edt m\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp m\u00e0 con b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea1t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cao h\u01a1n n\u1eefa.<\/span>

\u0110\u1ec3 r\u00e8n cho tr\u1ebb tinh th\u1ea7n ham th\u00edch h\u1ecdc , tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc ? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecm t\u00f2i , bi\u1ebft v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, bi\u1ebft t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1i hay c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1i hay cho m\u00ecnh.<\/span>

Sau \u0111\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i cho con nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n , ho\u00e0i b\u00e3o trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp . X\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u1ecdc v\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec v\u00e0 cho ai ? \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb em sinh tr\u01b0\u1edfng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f3, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n … nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc r\u1ea5t gi\u1ecfi v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u01a1n cao .. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng em gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u1ec1 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9ng ra lo li\u1ec7u cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 song v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng ham h\u1ecdc.<\/span>

M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng n\u1eefa l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, kh\u01a1i d\u1eady tinh th\u1ea7n t\u00ecm t\u00f2i s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a con em , \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1 t\u1ea1o t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n .<\/span>

N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian r\u1ea3nh r\u1ed7i , cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean xem qua ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc ; sau \u0111\u00f3 nghi\u1ec1n ng\u1eabm nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u \u0111\u1ed1. M\u1ed7i khi v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 , cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ra \u0111\u1ec1 , k\u00e8m theo m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 khen th\u01b0\u1edfng , hay khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu con l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng ra , l\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p. C\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 vui \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp r\u1ea5t hay.<\/span>

Trong ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p s\u01b0 ph\u1ea1m , ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0a ra b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3i b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi g\u1ee3i m\u1edf. \u0110\u1ec3 cho con gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0i , cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1eb7t t\u1eebng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi g\u1ee3i m\u1edf khi \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i ho\u1eb7c n\u1eb1m tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng xem b\u00e1o m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c con. D\u1ea1y con h\u1ecdc l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, l\u00e0 th\u1ea7y th\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t.<\/span>

M\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00f9ng h\u1ecdc.<\/span>

\u1ede m\u1ed7i giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ed1n t\u1eeb kh\u00e1c nhau t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 ch\u00fa \u00fd nh\u1eefng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n sau.<\/span>

Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n 2-3 tu\u1ed5i: M\u1edf r\u1ed9ng v\u1ed1n t\u1eeb cho tr\u1ebb.<\/span>

\u1ede l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nghe ch\u00fang n\u00f3i. Tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y, \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n. Nh\u01b0ng do v\u1ed1n t\u1eeb kh\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec1u n\u00ean tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u, di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t sai m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0: \u201cC\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i con mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng…\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ngay b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i \u201c\u0111\u00fang\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201ckh\u00f4ng\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u \u0111\u00fang, ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u.<\/span>

B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1edd \u01a1 b\u1edfi s\u1ebd l\u00e0m gi\u00e1n \u0111o\u1ea1n cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n tr\u1ebb t\u00ecm t\u1eeb ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ph\u00e1t \u00e2m chu\u1ea9n. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 s\u1eeda l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/span>

Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n 4-5 tu\u1ed5i: H\u00e3y gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi.<\/span>

\u0110\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1eb7n k\u1ebd, d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i khi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch chung chung c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb b\u1ecf r\u01a1i. Khi g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00f3, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n qu\u00e1 b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang m\u1ec7t v\u00e0 h\u1ee9a s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi sau.<\/span>

Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb 6-7 tu\u1ed5i: Gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng suy ngh\u0129, ph\u00e2n t\u00edch.<\/span>

\u1ede \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch. Ch\u00fang ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 chung quanh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3. Cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n b\u00e1ch khoa v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n hy v\u1ecdng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c khi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. Trong m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef sao cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u1ea7m hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u1ed1 t\u00ecm c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 n\u00ean th\u00fa nh\u1eadn v\u1edbi con: \u201cB\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y l\u1eafm\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u00ecm mua cho tr\u1ebb cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i n\u00e0y, khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh.<\/span>

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Ch\u1edb N\u00ean \u00c9p Bu\u1ed9c Con Ph\u1ea3i Theo \u00dd M\u00ecnh Ch\u00e2u H\u00e0 C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u em b\u00e9 m\u1edbi s\u00e1u, b\u1ea9y tu\u1ed5i m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0110\u01af\u1ee2C ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 B\u1eca cha m\u1eb9 cho \u0111i h\u1ecdc k\u00e8m th\u00eam h\u1ebft to\u00e1n, v\u0103n t\u1edbi \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u1ea3 v\u00f5 thu\u1eadt hay b\u01a1i l\u1ed9i n\u1eefa. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a k\u1ec3 t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 em thu\u1ed9c lo\u1ea1i “th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed3ng” – V\u00ec s\u1edbm t\u1ecf ra c\u00f3 “n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu” \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t , tr\u1ed5i v\u01b0\u1ee3t h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 n\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00fd th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 huynh “ch\u0103m s\u00f3c \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t”, chi\u1ebfu c\u1ed1 t\u1eadn t\u00ecnh…n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh qu\u00e1 s\u1ee9c c\u1ef1c nh\u1ecdc. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cho th\u1ea5y ngo\u00e0i m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c em th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng , tri\u1ec3n v\u1ecdng l\u1edbn lao ; th\u00ec c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean nhi \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn x\u00f4 \u0111\u1ea9y v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng “t\u1ea5t b\u1eadt”, “quay cu\u1ed3ng” c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y , n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y khi c\u00e1c em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u . Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n b\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u? C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec qu\u00e1 lo l\u1eafng cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai n\u00ean mu\u1ed1n b\u1eaft con em m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh th\u1eadt nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian cho vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh. \u0110\u00f4i khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng \u0103n vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m , t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng mu\u1ed1n cho tr\u1ebb th\u01a1 kh\u1ecfi b\u1ecb l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o c\u00e1c tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i th\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 cho ch\u00fang \u0111i h\u1ecdc th\u00eam v\u00e0 sinh ho\u1ea1t ngo\u1ea1i kh\u00f3a su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y . Nguy\u00ean do n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, mi\u1ec5n l\u00e0 c\u00e1c sinh ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c sao cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea1ng, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch th\u1eadt s\u1ef1, ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i c\u00e1c em. \u0110\u1ed0I V\u1edaI NHI \u0110\u1ed2NG CH\u01afA \u0110\u1ebeN TU\u1ed4I \u0110I H\u1eccC : H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 cho c\u00e1c em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. C\u00e1c em ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u ph\u1ea3i “h\u1ecdc th\u00eam” hay “h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1edbc” khi \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng. V\u1edbi l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y (3- 5 tu\u1ed5i) th\u1eadt ra m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, m\u1ed7i gi\u1edd….c\u00e1c em \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 vui ch\u01a1i, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u1edbi c\u00e1c anh ch\u1ecb, b\u00e8 b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng trang l\u1ee9a trong c\u00e1c m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng sinh ho\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh hay n\u01a1i gi\u1eef tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u1ed0I V\u1edaI H\u1eccC SINH C\u1ea4P TI\u1ec2U H\u1eccC : C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean theo s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng em m\u00e0 cho tham gia nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 3 trong c\u00e1c d\u1ea1ng sinh ho\u1ea1t ngo\u1ea1i kh\u00f3a (1 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, 1 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 thao, 1 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch v\u0103n ngh\u1ec7) \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd th\u00f4i th\u00fac c\u00e1c em ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, tranh \u0111ua qu\u00e1 s\u1ee9c. \u0110\u1ed0I V\u1edaI THI\u1ebeU NI\u00caN H\u1eccC SINH C\u1ea4P PH\u1ed4 TH\u00d4NG : \u1ede l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c em c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a t\u00f9y theo \u00fd th\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0: Tham gia c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9i th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c th\u1ec3 thao, c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9i tr\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n v\u0103n ngh\u1ec7 hay sinh ho\u1ea1t c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, tham gia c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 khoa h\u1ecdc, to\u00e1n h\u1ecdc, \u0111i\u1ec7n to\u00e1n…v.v \u0110\u1ed0I V\u1edaI SINH VI\u00caN C\u1ea4P \u0110\u1ea0I H\u1eccC: C\u00e1c em \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t, qu\u00fd v\u1ecb ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean can thi\u1ec7p qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm. Tuy nhi\u00ean, qu\u00fd v\u1ecb ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bu\u00f4ng th\u1ea3 hay chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nguy c\u01a1 con em b\u1ecb l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o c\u00e1c tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i hay nh\u1eefng th\u00fa vui tai h\u1ea1i. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft thu x\u1ebfp cho c\u00e1c em c\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1eddi gian h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp , sinh ho\u1ea1t v\u00e0 ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i (nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0103n v\u00e0 ng\u1ee7). Ch\u00ednh th\u1eddi gian ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i h\u1ee3p l\u00fd s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 t\u00e0i tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c em. Khi d\u1ea1y con v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch qu\u00e1 cao xa nh\u01b0: * Tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00edch cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. * C\u00f3 ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb em l\u00e0 l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i hay \u0103n hay ch\u01a1i th\u00ec ch\u00fang r\u1ea5t mau qu\u00ean c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch tr\u1eebu t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 xa v\u1eddi n\u00e0y. V\u00ec v\u1eady , ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh cho con nh\u1eefng m\u1ee9c g\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 : N\u0103m nay con h\u1ecdc l\u1edbp ba , con h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1 v\u00e0 gi\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1ecfi \u1edf l\u1ea1i l\u1edbp l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i . N\u1ebfu qu\u00fd v\u1ecb ph\u1ee5 huynh bi\u1ebft khen th\u01b0\u1edfng con em m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i hay m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111i ch\u01a1i cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n th\u00ec qu\u00e1 t\u1ed1t. Nh\u1edb ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a , khi c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 con….kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111au kh\u1ed5 cho b\u1eb1ng \u0111ang vui ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng x\u00f3m , b\u1ecb b\u1ed1 g\u1ecdi v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e9t v\u00e0o m\u00f4ng r\u1ed3i b\u1eaft ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0o b\u00e0n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch to\u00e1n hay t\u1eadp l\u00e0m v\u0103n. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 , v\u1edbi hai h\u00e0ng n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft r\u01a1i l\u00e3 ch\u00e3 , t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng gh\u00ea s\u1ee3 ! C\u00f2n g\u1ea7n nh\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u00f4ng Gi\u00e1o r\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc , th\u1eb1ng cu L\u1edbn t\u1ed1i n\u00e0o c\u0169ng b\u1ecb \u00f4ng d\u00f9ng roi m\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00f9a v\u00e0o b\u00e0n h\u1ecdc. H\u1ecdc th\u00ec h\u1ecdc v\u1eady nh\u01b0ng cu L\u1edbn ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 g\u00ec ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 , \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac ch\u1ecbu h\u1ebft n\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng tr\u1eadn \u0111\u00f2n roi c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 , cu L\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf nh\u00e0 \u0111i hoang ! S\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m , kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean g\u00f2 \u00e9p con theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh . V\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 c\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft m\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0o b\u00e0n h\u1ecdc. Mu\u1ed1n th\u1ebf , ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea7n d\u1ea1y cho con hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc , ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thi \u0111ua v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u00edch th\u00fa say m\u00ea h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. Ch\u00fang s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t sung s\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o khi gi\u1ea3i ra m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i to\u00e1n kh\u00f3 , hay t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd hay cho m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i lu\u1eadn v\u0103n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 th\u00edch ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0o b\u00e0n h\u1ecdc r\u1ed3i th\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp ra th\u1eddi kh\u00f3a bi\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc \u1edf nh\u00e0. Qua \u0111\u00f3 , b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a con qua th\u1eddi kh\u00f3a bi\u1ec3u. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u00edt m\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp m\u00e0 con b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea1t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cao h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. \u0110\u1ec3 r\u00e8n cho tr\u1ebb tinh th\u1ea7n ham th\u00edch h\u1ecdc , tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc ? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecm t\u00f2i , bi\u1ebft v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, bi\u1ebft t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1i hay c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1i hay cho m\u00ecnh. Sau \u0111\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i cho con nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n , ho\u00e0i b\u00e3o trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp . X\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u1ecdc v\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec v\u00e0 cho ai ? \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb em sinh tr\u01b0\u1edfng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f3, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n … nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc r\u1ea5t gi\u1ecfi v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u01a1n cao .. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng em gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u1ec1 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9ng ra lo li\u1ec7u cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 song v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng ham h\u1ecdc. M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng n\u1eefa l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, kh\u01a1i d\u1eady tinh th\u1ea7n t\u00ecm t\u00f2i s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a con em , \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1 t\u1ea1o t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n . N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian r\u1ea3nh r\u1ed7i , cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean xem qua ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec con \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc ; sau \u0111\u00f3 nghi\u1ec1n ng\u1eabm nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u \u0111\u1ed1. M\u1ed7i khi v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 , cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ra \u0111\u1ec1 , k\u00e8m theo m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 khen th\u01b0\u1edfng , hay khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu con l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng ra , l\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p. C\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1 vui \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp r\u1ea5t hay. Trong ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p s\u01b0 ph\u1ea1m , ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0a ra b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3i b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi g\u1ee3i m\u1edf. \u0110\u1ec3 cho con gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0i , cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1eb7t t\u1eebng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi g\u1ee3i m\u1edf khi \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i ho\u1eb7c n\u1eb1m tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng xem b\u00e1o m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c con. D\u1ea1y con h\u1ecdc l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, l\u00e0 th\u1ea7y th\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. M\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00f9ng h\u1ecdc. \u1ede m\u1ed7i giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ed1n t\u1eeb kh\u00e1c nhau t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 ch\u00fa \u00fd nh\u1eefng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n sau. Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n 2-3 tu\u1ed5i: M\u1edf r\u1ed9ng v\u1ed1n t\u1eeb cho tr\u1ebb. \u1ede l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nghe ch\u00fang n\u00f3i. Tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y, \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n. Nh\u01b0ng do v\u1ed1n t\u1eeb kh\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec1u n\u00ean tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u, di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t sai m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0: \u201cC\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i con mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng…\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ngay b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i \u201c\u0111\u00fang\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201ckh\u00f4ng\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u \u0111\u00fang, ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1edd \u01a1 b\u1edfi s\u1ebd l\u00e0m gi\u00e1n \u0111o\u1ea1n cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n tr\u1ebb t\u00ecm t\u1eeb ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ph\u00e1t \u00e2m chu\u1ea9n. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 s\u1eeda l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n 4-5 tu\u1ed5i: H\u00e3y gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1eb7n k\u1ebd, d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i khi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch chung chung c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb b\u1ecf r\u01a1i. Khi g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00f3, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n qu\u00e1 b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang m\u1ec7t v\u00e0 h\u1ee9a s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi sau. Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb 6-7 tu\u1ed5i: Gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng suy ngh\u0129, ph\u00e2n t\u00edch. \u1ede \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch. Ch\u00fang ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 chung quanh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3. Cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n b\u00e1ch khoa v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n hy v\u1ecdng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c khi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. Trong m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef sao cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u1ea7m hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u1ed1 t\u00ecm c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 n\u00ean th\u00fa nh\u1eadn v\u1edbi con: \u201cB\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y l\u1eafm\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u00ecm mua cho tr\u1ebb cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i n\u00e0y, khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. 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